We face decisions every day. Some are easy. Some are hard. Some change our whole life. Others barely matter.
As a Digital Nomad Family, we make big decisions all the time. Where to travel next? Where to stay? Which school for the kids? Making good decisions can feel tough. But I’ve found ways to make it easier. Let me share them with you!
7 Ways to Make Better Decisions
Step 1: Know What Matters to You
First, get clear on what’s important to you. What do you value? What are your goals? When you know your priorities, you can quickly drop options that don’t fit.
My husband and I stuck post-its on our wall to map out what we wanted. That’s how we became Digital Nomads! This step helped us make a strong decision that changed our career path.
Many people rush into important decisions without thinking about what really matters. As a good leader, you need to know your team’s values too. When our family picks a new place to live, we talk about what each person needs. My son wants adventures and friends. My daughter needs quiet study space. I need good internet. My husband wants outdoor activities.
When everyone’s needs are clear, decision making gets much easier. You save time by only looking at options that match what matters most.
Step 2: Get the Right Information
After you know what matters, gather facts. Research your options. Talk to experts or team members you trust. The more you know, the better your important decisions will be.
My husband and I split research tasks. We use decision-making tools like Notion or Trello to keep track of data points. This helps our leadership team make great decisions on a daily basis.
When we were choosing between Bali and Portugal for three months, we divided the work. My husband checked housing costs and visas. I looked into internet and workspaces. The kids researched fun activities. By sharing the load, we gathered much more information.
Getting the right information means asking good questions. When I’m not sure about something, I ask other nomad families. Their past experiences help me avoid making a bad decision. A quick message can save weeks of regret!
Look at choices from different points of view. What seems perfect for you might affect others in ways you didn’t think about. This matters when making decisions as a family or team.
Step 3: Make a Pros and Cons List
This old trick really works! List what’s good and bad about each choice. See how each option fits with what matters to you. This helps you think clearly about your options.
Be honest with yourself! We often list too many good points for the option we already like. That’s confirmation bias. Try to be fair when comparing choices to avoid a wrong choice.
When I really want one option, I push myself to find good things about the other choices. This balances my thinking and sometimes leads to better decisions.
For big decisions, I make separate pro/con lists on different days. My thinking often changes! What looked perfect on Monday might seem different by Wednesday. This simple trick has saved me from many mistakes.
Don’t just count how many pros and cons you have. Some points matter more than others. One big benefit might outweigh five small problems. Your value system should guide how you weigh each factor.
Can you remember the last time you made a pros and cons list? What was the final score?
Step 4: Picture Yourself in Each Option
Take a quiet moment and imagine each choice as if you’d already made it. How do you feel? What might happen? How would this decision change your daily life?
This helps you see the bigger picture and connect with your gut instinct. It’s great for big decisions like becoming a Digital Nomad or buying a new car. It helps you spot potential risks you might miss otherwise.
I use this all the time. Before we commit to staying somewhere for months, I close my eyes and imagine our daily life there. How would we get food? Where would we work? What would weekends be like? Sometimes a place that looks great on paper feels wrong when I picture living there.
This also helps with opportunity cost – seeing what you give up with each choice. When I’m torn between two good options, I picture what I’d miss from each one. This makes trade-offs clearer and helps prevent regret.
Senior executives use this trick for key decisions. They walk through different scenarios in their minds before they decide. It’s like test-driving your decision before making it final.
Step 5: Don’t Rush
Are you impatient like me? Do you want everything now? Rushing is one of the biggest mistakes people make when deciding things.
Take your time. Don’t feel pressured to make quick decisions. If it’s an important choice, take all the time you need! Good decision-making often needs patience, especially for financial decisions or choosing the right path for your family.
I learned this lesson the hard way. Last year, we quickly booked a place in Bangkok without enough research. We ended up in a noisy area with few food options. Just one more day of research would have led to a better choice.
Some decisions need to be quick. But most important decisions get better with a little time. Sleep on it. Take a walk. Talk to someone you trust. Great decision-making rarely happens under pressure.
Decision fatigue is real. We make poor decisions when we’re tired. That’s why I try to make important choices in the morning when my mind is fresh. If you get stuck in analysis paralysis, take a break and come back later.
Step 6: Trust Your Gut
Sometimes, the best decisions just feel right. Listen to your inner voice. If something feels wrong, it probably is. Our bodies have mental shortcuts that warn us about bad decisions.
If something feels like the right decision, trust that feeling! Business leaders often talk about using their gut for key decisions. Your instincts come from your past experiences, even if you can’t explain why one option feels better.
Our family almost rented an apartment in Los Angeles that looked perfect online. But when we visited, something felt off. We all had the same uneasy feeling. We walked away. Later, we learned about major noise problems from nearby construction. Our gut instinct saved us from months of misery!
Your gut feeling isn’t magic – it’s your brain processing information faster than you can put into words. Those feelings often come from small details you noticed but can’t quite explain. As you make more decisions, your instincts get better.
Good decision-makers use both facts and feelings. They gather all the relevant information, then check with their gut before making the final call. This approach often leads to better choices than just using logic or feelings alone.
Step 7: Make a Simple Plan
You made a decision! Great job! Now create a plan to put your choice into action.
Break down your decision into small, easy steps. Set a timeline for each step. This makes even the biggest decisions feel doable.
When we decided to become digital nomads, it seemed overwhelming. So we made a simple plan: First, check visa rules. Then, sell stuff we didn’t need. Next, find a place to stay in our first location. With each step done, the big decision became less scary.
Having a plan helps you track progress and make changes if needed. No decision is set in stone. Good decision-making means being flexible when things change. The best leaders know when to stick with a choice and when to try something new.
Remember that big life changes bring stress. That’s normal. It’s easier to accept these feelings than to fight them. Even great decisions can cause decision fatigue or worry at first. Be kind to yourself and your team members during changes.
A good leader knows that carrying out decisions needs both practical steps and emotional support. Check in with yourself and others often. Celebrate small wins. Get positive feedback to stay motivated.
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Final Thoughts on How to Make Better Decisions Every Day
With these tips, you can make decisions with more confidence. You have the decision-making skills you need for the best choices in your life, whether you’re in Los Angeles or traveling the world.
I use these methods for both big decisions and everyday choices. Over time, they’ve become habits that make my life simpler and more in line with what truly matters to me. Good decision-making gets better with practice.
The best part? These strategies work for any kind of decision. Thinking about a new job? Use the pros and cons list. Not sure about your next travel spot? Picture yourself there first. Want to try a new business idea? Get the right information before you start. When you use these tools regularly, you’ll find yourself making better decisions without much time or effort.
Remember that no decision is perfect. Even with the best decision-making processes, you’ll sometimes make poor decisions. That’s part of being human! Learn from your mistakes and move forward wiser. Each wrong choice teaches you something valuable for next time.
Will you try one of these strategies next time you face an important decision? Which one seems most helpful right now? Let me know in the comments!
Thank you for reading and for making me part of your day! Yours, Lulu
